Coping and support
By Mayo Clinic staffCoping with depression can be challenging. Talk to your doctor or therapist about improving your coping skills, and try these tips:
- Simplify your life. Cut back on obligations when possible, and set reasonable goals for yourself. Give yourself permission to do less when you feel down.
- Consider writing in a journal. Journaling can improve mood by allowing you to express pain, anger, fear or other emotions.
- Read reputable self-help books. Your doctor or therapist may be able to recommend books to read.
- Locate helpful organizations. A number of organizations offer support groups, counseling and other resources can that can help with depression. For example, the National Alliance on Mental Illness offers free online and in-person education, discussion groups and classes for people with depression and their family members. Many employee assistance programs and religious organizations also offer help for mental health concerns.
- Don't become isolated. Try to participate in social activities, and get together with family or friends regularly.
- Take care of yourself. Eat a healthy diet, exercise regularly and get plenty of sleep.
- Learn ways to relax and manage your stress. Examples include meditation, yoga and tai chi.
- Structure your time. Plan your day and activities. You may find it helpful to make a list of daily tasks, use sticky notes as reminders or use a planner to stay organized.
- Don't make important decisions when you're down. Avoid decision making when you're feeling very depressed, since you may not be thinking clearly.
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