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May 22, 2008
3 keys to survival
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By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

We here at MayoClinic.com continue to be challenged by the stresses that confront not only members of our blog community but also the community at large. While waiting for an airplane, an interesting thing happened to me.

I picked up a novel in a bookstore at a local airport and came across a story of a James Bond-type character who lived on the edge. His work was challenging, dangerous, and vital to national defense. When queried by his colleagues about his survival tactics, he mentioned three things which I think also apply to us. Regardless of the assignment or the project, there were just three things that he kept in mind.

-  Keep it simple. The more moving parts, the more individuals involved, the more complex the program, the higher the risk of failure.

- Always be prepared for contingencies. What if ... what might go wrong ... how will I deal with x, y, or z? For example, as a public speaker, I always keep in mind plan B if my laptop explodes, if the projector "freezes," or we lose power.

- Never panic. This means being prepared within reason for what may lie ahead.

As an afterthought, this agent also embraced the uncertainty of life.  Things go wrong, relationships become painful, the goal sometimes is not reached.  We need to be flexible, we need to be adaptable, and to recognize that there is great merit in staying in the day and turning over our needs and our concerns to a higher power however we may define that power.

So, I ask for additional insights from our community in dealing with uncertainty, adversity, and some of the unfairness of life.

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June 3, 2008 2:32 p.m.
Avoid watching the News right before bedtime. Comedies and laughter are good for your body. Uplifting music. A wise, true friend you can bounce things off of. As far as unfairness of life - nobody has a perfect life - it just may seem so from the outside. As for any grudges - just let them go. It may be difficult but is much better for your spirit.
- Janet G.
May 28, 2008 10:47 p.m.
The best advice I heard for relieving stress and anxiety is to ask yourself, "Am I going to worry about this a year from today?" (What were you worrying about a year ago today?)
- Rose P.
May 28, 2008 2:50 p.m.
Anyone have anxiety/panic attacks They cause a great deal of stress.
- No name given
May 28, 2008 10:05 a.m.
KISS (Keep It Simple, Stupid) ABP (Always Be Prepared) Plan for worst case scenario. WIDD (When in doubt, don't) TTWP (This, Too, Will Pass) I definitely agree with madams
- Roberta S.
May 28, 2008 9:05 a.m.
Recognize panic is a survival mechanism (fight or flight response) and not to be feared. The hormones released energize you and prepare you to take action. Take a few slow, deep breathes while letting go of muscle tension to deescalate your emotion level so you can refocus on your options for a positive response to your situation.
- Jean
May 27, 2008 6:54 p.m.
Breathe. It's amazing how a few deep, slow breaths can help you calm yourself, giving you time to refocus and gain perspective in order to deal with an unexpected situation. Love the line from "Night of the Iguana"..."Some people take a drink, others take a pill. I just take a few deep breaths."
- Kate
May 27, 2008 6:11 p.m.
Surround yourself with happy, energetic people. Listen to music and dance.
- Ingrid Ness
May 27, 2008 4:48 p.m.
Love Keep it Simple. The others about being prepared bring on stress. How about: Recognize EVERYONE has the same stressors(relationships, money, jobs..) Your pain is as common as mankind.
- nancy
May 27, 2008 4:36 p.m.
I heard the comment somewhere -- expect the best and plan for the worst.
- Mike
May 26, 2008 3:26 a.m.
Keeping things in perspetive is key --another was to say this is "don't sweat the small stuff as you work towards your goal."
- From Tokyo
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