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  • July 30, 2009

    Blog: Feeding a toddler who is a picky eater

    By Jennifer Nelson, M.S., R.D. and Katherine Zeratsky, R.D.

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Parents worry. It comes with the job. And another part of the job is making sure your child eats a healthy diet. Which is why it's particularly frustrating when it seems your toddler has turned into a "picky eater." What can you do? Start by educating yourself.

What parents should know

  • As children enter toddlerhood, their rate of growth slows — and so does their appetite. Your child should no longer be doubling or tripling his weight as he did in his first year.
  • Your toddler knows how much to eat. She will eat when she's hungry and stop when she's full. Toddlers may eat a lot at one meal, but they usually make up for it by eating less at the next.
  • Developmental issues influence behavior at the table. When your child acts picky about food, he may just be expressing a natural desire for more autonomy.
  • Children are innately suspicious of new foods. It can take up to 10 exposures before your child will accept a new food.
  • Picky eating does not make your toddler more likely to have long-term growth or developmental problems.

What parents can do

  • Trust your child's appetite. Let your toddler eat to her satisfaction. Don't push her to clean her plate.
  • Offer a variety of healthy, age-appropriate foods. Serve "real" food, such as fruits and vegetables, and avoid packaged foods with extra sugar and salt.
  • Don't use food as a punishment — or as a reward. And never use food as a bargaining tool. This can lead to power struggles and prevent your child from learning self-control.
  • Make meals calm and pleasant. Mealtime should also be a time for the family to socialize. So relax and enjoy.
  • Make food fun. Encourage your child to admire the color and shape, as well as the touch, smell and taste of food.
  • Watch the drinking. If your child tends to drinks more than she eats, limit beverages before meals. At mealtimes, offer solid foods before serving milk.
  • Talk with your doctor. If you're still worried or you see unexpected changes in your toddler's energy level or growth, don't hesitate to discuss your concerns with your child's doctor.

What other advice can experienced parents offer parents with toddlers who are picky eaters?

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