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  • Stress blog

  • May 13, 2010

    Hit the wall? Try refocusing on your goal

    By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

9 comments posted

Some of our most important lessons are learned over cups of coffee at the kitchen table rather than in boardrooms or even classrooms.

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Let me explain. One of my colleagues stopped by several nights ago to tell us about running his first marathon. He'd trained diligently and felt psychologically and physically ready to run 26.2 miles. At the halfway mark, he said he felt strong. But he was exhausted as he approached mile 25, at which point he was passed by a 75-year-old gentleman. My colleague's spirit was broken. He walked the last mile and it took him 15 minutes to cover the distance.

So what's the lesson for us? We can't let setbacks jeopardize our focus — because when we're distracted we lose the energy to achieve our goals.

Of course, this applies to running but also to the marathon called life. Are there other lessons that we can learn from my colleague's experience?

9 comments posted

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  • June 9, 2010 11:14 a.m.

    Sometimes looking right/left helps you figure your progress and get tips about being successful. But the pace is your own and it is neither right or wrong. I am a bit unclear on the "set a goal" thing. I don't think daily life necessarily has a goal. Do you just pick something out randomly from things you want to do?

    - Susan

  • May 28, 2010 11:55 p.m.

    Please consider using slightly bolder and darker types for your newsletters newsletters.

    - Fakhruddin

  • May 18, 2010 10:28 p.m.

    Focus and confidents...2 great ingredients to an accomplished life.

    - Geld Bernug

  • May 17, 2010 7:23 p.m.

    Whoops I meant stressmanagement

    - Scott

  • May 17, 2010 7:22 p.m.

    Stress is sometimes hard to deal with. I also found this site helpful: http://helpguide.org/mental/stress_management_relief_coping.htm

    - Scott

  • May 17, 2010 7:04 a.m.

    Some lessons from this story: keep your eyes on the goal not looking left or right; don't compare yourself to others (some are faster, some are slower); the race isn't over until you are; if you want wise advice--talk to the 75 year old who crossed the line before you; use that advice in your next race.

    - slogger (slow jogger)

  • May 16, 2010 11:31 a.m.

    This lession on the marathon called life reminded me of my mother's plight. I recall her saying later, after being diagnosed with a cancer on a part of her body she hadn't even heard of (Ampulla of Vater)--that her life of "clean living" i.e. no drinking, smoking, or other vices--all that prep hadn't helped in the long run. She spent her remaining time focusing elsewhere, on the sport of Nascar! Perhaps in hindsight she wished she had lived in the fast lane. This adaptability helped her with this unexpected, unfair terminal setback in her life. Unfortunately her hero literally hit the wall, but she adapted again by following tennis afterword.

    - Carol

  • May 13, 2010 12:04 p.m.

    Sometimes we lose focus of our progress because we compare outselves (or pace) to others. I am one who writes down my goals, everyday I glance at my index card and it keeps me motivated toward my task.

    - Marie

  • May 12, 2010 10:58 p.m.

    Life isn't fair!

    - Carol

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