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  • Stress blog

  • Nov. 7, 2012

    Don't try to go it alone when adversity hits

    By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

3 comments posted

It's important to remember that we're all in the same boat and we need to reach out to each other during the good times and the not-so-good times. Let me share some thoughts on this topic relative to recent blog comments:

  • To intelligently access the health care delivery system, we need to have a primary care doctor or other health care provider who can open the doors for us. To wind up in an emergency room or an urgent care setting is often not optimum. We need someone who knows us, someone who cares about us, and someone who can act as an advocate to help us navigate through the bewildering maze of options.
  • For those of us with disabilities of our own and yet struggling with the care of elderly individuals, we cannot go it alone. Social service agencies and other professionals are available to provide guidance. When we are tired, frustrated and discouraged, our view of life becomes distorted and cloudy. We need help to find our way out of the fog.
  • It is clear that it is not possible to "pull ourselves up by our bootstraps" when we are struggling and overwhelmed with depression and grief. A thoughtful listener — whether it is a member of the clergy, health care provider or a friend — can often help us get through times of crisis.

Follow me on Twitter at @EdwardCreagan. Join the discussion at #Stress.

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  • November 21, 2012 10:45 a.m.

    I am so alone...I know no one...I have no where to go...I have tried churches, people there are too fake and unreal, nice to your face but dont get to know them they are not the same people they were on Sundays. I have tried it all, unsuccessfully. I should have died when I was so ill as a child. If I had died I would not have had to live the last 45 years of hell. I have tried so hard to fit in and be happy. Nothing ever works. Life just plain is not worth this hardship and hell. The people that could have cared, didnt. The people I cared for pushed me away. I was never good enough for anyone. Only wanted to fit in.

    - Maxine

  • November 15, 2012 1:49 a.m.

    Words to live by,BUT, easier said than done

    - Anne Marie

  • November 12, 2012 12:54 a.m.

    Good advice

    - Lisa

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