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November 2, 2007 3:31 p.m.
Mother Teresa: Lessons for us all
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By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

My wife and I recently returned from personal and professional activities in Guatemala. Since the total flight was six hours, including layovers, my wife shared with me a book titled "Mother Teresa: Come Be My Light."

I was not particularly enthusiastic about reading a book about a saintly woman with whom I could hardly relate. However, once I started the book I could not put it down. Here is what I learned, and this directly relates to some of the insightful comments from our stress community:

  • Mother Teresa had a calling to work among the poor in the slums of Calcutta. The church leaders at that time were highly skeptical and were not at all supportive of her efforts. However, with tenacity, perseverance, and a sense of mission, the church leaders stepped aside and Mother Teresa created her legacy.
  • Mother Teresa experienced a longing, a void, a spiritual absence which haunted her for many decades. She sought the guidance of a wise spiritual counselor who suggested that she simply "accept it." This feeling could not be dismissed, it would not go away, yet with an attitude of acceptance and resignation and embracing uncertainty, Mother Teresa, by her own writings, achieved a state of peace, harmony and serenity.

So, I think the same tactics apply to us. Each of us on a daily basis struggles with unfairness, illness, uncertainty, and yet we stumble forward with a sense of community and connectedness and with the grace and support of our fellow pilgrims.

By the way, Mother Teresa also acknowledged "I have no time for myself" and periodically would go on a week-long retreat to become revived and rejuvenated.

Another important lesson for each of us mere mortals. May our days ahead be filled with peace, health, prosperity and serenity.

Dr. Ed

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March 27, 2008 9:04 p.m.
Stress can be overcome, or eased, by putting it in the hands of the Lord. Take whatever is YOUR belief system, and send your dis~ease to a higher power. My higher power is Jesus.
- Maureen, the wonder
March 12, 2008 12:39 p.m.
All stress is self imposed from birth! All of your choices are made by you everyday! Make better choices with patience about money and or relationships and life will get better always! Time and patience will heal the past and give the most peace of mind !
- Terry Standring
December 26, 2007 7:40 a.m.
A great read for stress / distress and coping is Frankl's "The Meaning of Life" It speaks of his time in the Holocaust Camps and how one's attitide changes about simple things. If somone can get through that - then day to day stress / distress can also be conquered!
- Hank Merkle
November 30, 2007 8:54 p.m.
We all create energy that has to be released in a meaningfull and positive way, otherwise it turns unhealthy. Mother Teresa found her way of releasing in a positive way
- Carmen
November 15, 2007 11:06 a.m.
We all go through 'desert' periods in our walk with God. If it never leaves, then I would question my relationship with Him. I would never just 'accept' a doubt or separation, it's Satan's lie. God gives a 'peace that passes all understanding'
- Cindy
November 9, 2007 8:29 p.m.
I believe that the level of stress and the means of dealing with one's stress are quite different for people of average consciousness compared to one as inspired as Mother Teresa. In all of the discussions about Mother Teresa over the past weeks I have not heard it suggested that because of her highly inspired state of being, the Divinity (read: God) in her became so prominent that she was seeing the world through God's eyes. It is akin to the fact that even though our eyes provide us with vision, (without use of a reflection) we can never actually see our eyes.
- Mike
November 7, 2007 8:47 a.m.
You are using the word stress as the definition for your very useful discussions. Don't you mean distress as Dr Hans Selye defined it. Stress in face of danger is absolutely necessary; however, when it tips over into distress, the postive bodily response becomes a negative one. All of us have strategies for this, but busy lives and a constant barrage of negative stories in the media and 'stressed' by governments are overwhelming. I try to member my good fortune in the face of all this negativity. In addition, I try to remember those who are suffering throughout the world. This week is Holacaust Week. Thinking of those who died and lost families then helps to put things in perspective. It does not remove all the distress I feel, but it does help.
- Barbara Michel
November 6, 2007 6:16 p.m.
We all get different messages from any really good writings, and I believe Mother Teresa would be happy for any succor provided to anyone else resulting from her faith struggles.
- Nancy
November 6, 2007 3:29 p.m.
The good doctor hardly needs anyone rising to his defense here, but don't conditions of chronic, nagging uncertainty give rise to stress, and didn't Mother Teresa learn to channel that stress? If we understand the term "stress" to be strictly limited to the acute fight or flight response, then the correlation would not be relevant. Most of our daily lives differ, of course, from anaerobic sprinting across the savanna that our ancestors would have done, or from conceptions of the saintly. We are more likely to have our autonomic nervous systems revved up at intervals throughout the course of a typical day, worrying about paying bills, performing mostly jobs, etc., and it all the reaction over time can add up to illness. Learning to take periodic retreats, and embracing the inherent uncertainty of existence seem like adaptive responses.
- Alan
November 6, 2007 7:08 a.m.
Admittedly I have not yet read the book which has not yet been published in Australia, however, from the Time magazine review recently, radio interviews with the author that I have listened to and other critical analysis I have read or accessed it appears to me that this book review is a little shallow in it's critique. Is not Mother Teresa's hunger for God's absent "presence" the central tenet of the book? If so a self-serving correlation with stress is hardly relevent.
- Henry
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