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Nancy Klobassa Davidson, R.N., B.S.N, C.D.E
Nancy Klobassa Davidson is a registered nurse who has worked in diabetes education for 17 years. She is a certified diabetes educator (C.D.E.) and is currently in graduate school working on a Master of Science in nursing (M.S.N.) and health care education.
Nancy works with adults who have type 1, type 2 and other forms of diabetes. Nancy is coordinator of the Diabetes Unit's intensive insulin therapy program within the Division of Endocrinology, Diabetes, Metabolism, & Nutrition at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn. Nancy has worked extensively with insulin pump therapy and continuous interstitial glucose sensing.
Peggy Moreland, R.N., M.S.N.
Peggy Moreland is a certified diabetes educator (C.D.E.) in the Division of Endocrinology, Diabetes, Metabolism, & Nutrition at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn.
Peggy graduated with a Master of Science in Nursing and Health Care Education from the University of Phoenix and is a member of the American Association of Diabetes Educators and the American Diabetes Association. A certified diabetes educator (C.D.E.), Peggy enjoys working with patients to set and achieve diabetes self-management goals.
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Diabetes etiquette: When you don't have diabetes
By Nancy Klobassa Davidson, R.N., and Peggy Moreland, R.N.
This blog is the second in a two-part series in which we discuss how to respectfully support your loved one with diabetes.
Last week, Nancy discussed some thoughts about how to help your loved one with diabetes while maintaining healthy boundaries. I later found these 10 tips for "diabetes etiquette for people who don't have diabetes," from the Behavioral Diabetes Institute, and wanted to share them with you.
- Don't offer unsolicited advice about what a person should eat or other aspects of his or her diabetes management. You may mean well, but giving advice about someone's personal choices, especially when it hasn't been requested, isn't very nice. In addition, many of the popularly held beliefs about diabetes, such as "you should just stop eating sugar," are out of date or just plain wrong.
- Do realize and appreciate that managing diabetes is hard work. Diabetes management is a full-time job that people with diabetes didn't apply for, don't want and can't quit. It involves thinking about what, when and how much to eat, while also factoring in exercise, medication, stress, blood-sugar monitoring and so much more.
- Don't tell horror stories about your family member, friend or any other person with diabetes. Diabetes is scary enough, and stories like these aren't reassuring. Besides, we now know that with good management, many people with diabetes can live long, healthy and happy lives.
- Do offer to join your loved one in making healthy lifestyle changes. Not having to be alone in efforts to change, like starting an exercise program, can be powerful and helpful. After all, healthy lifestyle changes can benefit everyone!
- Don't react negatively if a person checks his or her blood glucose or gives him — or herself an insulin injection in front of you. Checking blood sugar levels and taking medications are things a person with diabetes must do to manage diabetes well. If he or she has to hide while doing so, it's that much harder.
- Do ask how you might be helpful. If you want to be supportive, there may be lots of little things you can do that might be appreciated. Please just ask first.
- Don't offer thoughtless reassurances. Don't say things like "Hey it could be worse; you could have cancer." This won't make the person with diabetes feel better. And the implicit message seems to be that diabetes is no big deal. However, it is.
- Do be supportive of a person's efforts at self-care. You can help by supporting a person's attempts at setting up an environment for success, such as by keeping healthy foods available. Please honor a person's decision to decline a particular food, even when you really want him or her to try it. You're most helpful when you aren't being a source of unnecessary temptation.
- Don't peek at or comment on a person's blood glucose numbers without asking him or her first. These numbers are private unless the person chooses to share them. It's normal to have numbers that are sometimes too low or too high. Your unsolicited comments about these numbers can add to feelings of disappointment, frustration and anger a person with diabetes might already feel.
- Do offer your love and encouragement. As a person works hard to manage diabetes successfully, sometimes just knowing that you care can be very helpful and motivating.
I couldn't have said it better myself. Have a great week!