To forgive, divine

By Mayo Clinic staff

Original Article:  http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/forgive/MY01332
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  • June 18, 2010

    To forgive, divine

    By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

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Recently a beloved member of our community was very seriously injured by another individual. This was not an accident; this was a deliberate attempt to harm another person. I'm struggling with how to reconcile this behavior and how to forgive.

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As many of you have commented, it's easy to tell others to "let go and move on" when we feel safe and comfortable. However, it's tough to do when someone close to us has been injured or we perceive that we've been wronged.

I've heard individuals far brighter than I am say that forgiveness is not possible without a power and grace over and above ourselves. Because it seems so counter to human nature to simply turn the other cheek, I tend to believe that the ability to do so comes from a higher power. What do you think?

I welcome your suggestions and insights about how to move forward in the face of outrageous and dreadful behavior.

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