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  • Dec. 20, 2008

    Managing the holiday blues

    By David Mrazek, M.D.

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The holidays can be the best time of the year for some people and the worst time of the year for others.

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We all know people who say they "dread" the holidays. The holiday blues should not be confused with seasonal affective disorder that we talked about a couple of weeks ago. The holiday blues refers to specific feelings and symptoms that can mimic depression such as:

  • Depressed mood
  • Decreased interest in life activities normally enjoyed such as social gatherings, shopping, cooking, hobbies
  • Feeling overhwhelmed
  • Irritability
  • Fatigue, feeling drained physically and emotionally
  • Sleep or appetite disturbances
  • Anxiety, feeling nervous, edgy or "keyed up"
  • Excessive guilt

What causes the holiday blues?

  • Burning the candle at both ends
  • Putting pressure on ourselves to have everything done today, and done perfectly
  • Not following our normal eating and sleeping routines
  • Using more alcohol
  • Getting together with family can be difficult when discord or unresolved issues exist
  • Unpleasant memories or experiences from prior holidays
  • Financial pressures and expectations of buying gifts

What are some solutions?

  • Keep a regular sleep schedule as much as possible
  • Try to maintain a healthy balanced diet amidst the cookies, eggnog and other goodies
  • Limit alcohol intake (it may make you fall asleep easier, but disrupts the quality of sleep overall)
  • Take medications as prescribed
  • Make sure to schedule alone time to feed your mind, spirit, and body
  • Maintain your exercise routine
  • Don't strive for perfection, rather do the best you can and ask for help from others
  • Limit time at gatherings if needed

Do you have any other observations about the holiday blues, and tips for managing this stressful time?

Have a happy, peaceful holiday season.

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