How has cancer changed you?
By Mayo Clinic staffOriginal Article: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/living-with-cancer-blog/MY01382
- With Mayo Clinic nurse educator
Sheryl M. Ness, R.N.
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Sheryl M. Ness, R.N.
Sheryl M. Ness
Sheryl Ness, R.N., O.C.N., is a nurse educator for the Cancer Education Program at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn. She helps inform patients, families and caregivers about services and resources to help them through the cancer journey.
She has a master's degree in nursing from Augsburg College. In addition, she is an assistant professor of oncology at the College of Medicine, Mayo Clinic, and is certified as a specialist in oncology nursing. Sheryl has worked for more than 20 years at Mayo Clinic as an educator. She has a keen interest in the importance of the quality of life and concerns of people living with cancer.
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July 21, 2010
How has cancer changed you?
By Sheryl M. Ness, R.N.
How has life changed for you as a cancer survivor? So many times, I hear someone say "my life is so different now," or "cancer changes you." In exploring this idea a bit more, it's not so much about the physical changes that take place, but also the emotional and spiritual changes.
I remember talking with a woman who had just had breast cancer surgery. She was in her early 40's, with a husband and teenage daughters. She wasn't so concerned about the physical changes that she had undergone, but mentioned how her family relationships had changed. She said that she was closer than ever with her family. She was very open with her daughters about everything that she was experiencing. She was honest about her feelings and talked with them about genetic testing and planning for their future as well. They had a great way of giving strength to each other through open and honest communication.
Many times, religious faith is strengthened, family members take on new roles, and friendships bring new meaning. Personal perspectives, priorities and habits can all be a bit different than before your diagnosis. These changes can be positive or negative and present new challenges that you haven't had to deal with before.
Please write in and share with others how cancer has changed you.
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