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By Mayo Clinic staffYoung children — and even teens — are often apprehensive about doctor visits, and the anxiety only increases when they're in pain. Here are some ways to help reassure your child before an office visit:
- Explain the reason for the visit. Tell your child that the doctor will try to find what's causing the pain and then look for ways to fix it.
- Describe what to expect during the exam. If you don't know, call the office beforehand to find out what tests your child is likely to have. For instance, if your child is scheduled for an abdominal ultrasound, you can explain that the test doesn't hurt, and that parents can stay in the room during the test. For blood draws, be sure that young children understand that only a small amount of blood will be taken.
- Get your child involved. Write down — or have your child write down — questions for the doctor. Then be sure that they're answered fully and in language your child can understand. Even young children are reassured when they feel that they're participating in their own health care.
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