Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD)

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Coping and support

By Mayo Clinic staff

For yourself, counseling can provide an outlet for your own mental health concerns that could interfere with the successful treatment of your child's symptoms. If you're depressed or anxious, that could lead to disengagement from your child — and that can trigger or worsen oppositional behaviors. Here are some tips:

  • Learn ways to calm yourself. Keeping your own cool models the behavior you want from your child.
  • Take time for yourself. Develop outside interests, get some exercise and spend some time away from your child to restore your energy.
  • Be forgiving. Let go of things that you or your child did in the past. Start each day with a fresh outlook and a clean slate.

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Dec. 19, 2007

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