Coping and support
By Mayo Clinic staffIf you or a loved one is suicidal or in emotional distress, you can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 24-hour crisis line at 800-273-TALK (800-273-8255).
Coping tips if you self-injure
- Try to find ways to cope other than injuring yourself, such as reaching out to a friend, practicing relaxation techniques, contacting a support group or getting in touch with your doctor.
- Resolve not to underestimate the ability to change your life in positive ways.
- Avoid alcohol and illegal drugs; they affect your ability to make good decisions and can put you at risk of self-injuring.
- Shun Internet sites that support or glamorize self-injury. Instead, seek out sites that are supportive of your recovery efforts.
Coping tips if your loved one self-injures
- Try not to judge or criticize. Criticism may increase the risk of self-harming behavior.
- Let your child know you love him or her no matter what.
- Take care of yourself, too. Take some time to do the things you enjoy doing, and get adequate rest. You may also find it helpful to talk to other people who've gone through the same thing you're going through now. Ask your child's or loved one's doctor or therapist if there are any local support groups for parents or other loved ones of people who self-injure.
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