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  • Oct. 31, 2007

    Life's not fair, but seize the reins

    By Edward T. Creagan, M.D.

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As I reflect on the insightful postings on our blog, I am reminded of some powerful childhood experiences. Let me explain.

My father had a serious allergic reaction to a condition called "work." But he made a very comfortable living, if sometimes unpredictable, as a professional handicapper betting on thoroughbreds. It was a full time job. He called the East Coast tracks "temples of hope."

Most of our friends were racetrack characters right out of central casting. Jockeys and their agents, valets, grooms, exercise riders, trainers and assorted backstretch people who never had real names. Just nicknames.

The best years for them were in the past and most were running from something. Almost everyone was looking for the next hot horse, the sure winner and winning the trifecta. As a little boy I heard about the unfairness of life and lots of "what ifs, if only." Few ever recognized that life reflects choices and options ... not just luck.

Sure, things happen over which we have no control, but we need to be proactive and take responsibility for our lives just like we are hearing from our fellow travelers on this site.

So, how do we creatively grapple with life's unfairness and how do we keep our hands on the reins and control our destiny?

One of the best pieces of advice from my father: Never bet on anything that eats, has a tail or fur.

Peace ... Dr. Ed

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