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Overcoming weight-loss setbacks

By Mayo Clinic staff

It's not unusual to occasionally lose track of your weight-loss program and slip back into old patterns of unhealthy eating and minimal exercise. In fact, given how complicated life can be, you should expect mistakes to happen and have a plan in place to recover when slip-ups occur. It takes time and regular reinforcement for your new healthy behaviors to become habits.

Use these tips to help you deal with occasional weight-loss setbacks:

  • Take charge. Accept responsibility for your own behavior. Only you can help yourself lose weight. You can get yourself back on track.
  • Buy time. If you're tempted to keep indulging, tell yourself you just need a short break. Then wait a few minutes and see if the desire passes. Try distracting yourself from your urge to eat — call a friend or take the dog for a walk. If the craving still doesn't pass, review your goals and engage in a fun, mood-elevating activity.
  • Be gentle with yourself. Practice self-forgiveness. Think "OK, I've slipped but I'm going to get on track with eating and exercise now." Try not to think of your slip-up as a catastrophe. Remember that mistakes happen and that each day is a chance to start anew.
  • Ask for and accept help. Accepting help from others isn't a sign of weakness, nor does it mean that you're failing. Asking for help is a sign of good judgment, not weakness. You need support from others to keep you on track when you have difficult days. Venting can help you get back to your healthy plan.
  • Work out your guilt and frustration with exercise. Take a walk or go for a swim. But keep your exercise and activity upbeat. Use it to elevate your mood and recommit to your goals. Never use it as punishment for a lapse.
  • Problem-solve as you go. Instead of criticizing yourself, clearly identify the problem, and then create a list of possible solutions. Try a solution. If it works, you've got a strategy for preventing another lapse. If it doesn't, try the next solution and keep trying until you find one that works.
  • Recommit to your goals. Review your weight-loss goals and make certain they're still realistic. Remember, healthy weight loss comes slowly — 1 or 2 pounds a week. Continue to focus on healthy goals such as having a healthy breakfast, going for a walk or bringing a healthy snack to work.

What if you do experience a weight-loss setback? Although relapses are disappointing, they can help you learn to keep your goals realistic, what high-risk situations to avoid or that certain strategies don't work for you.

Above all, realize that you're not a failure. Reverting to old behaviors doesn't mean that all hope is lost. It just means that you need to recharge your motivation, recommit to your program and return to healthy behaviors.

WT00021 Dec. 17, 2008

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